Blog nineteen: The Art of Noticing: The Simplest Way to Reset Your Mind
How small moments of awareness help us feel calmer, steadier, and more connected to ourselves
In a world full of noise, self-improvement tips, and “do more” messaging, slowing down can feel almost rebellious. We often think the solution to stress is adding another routine, another habit, a more disciplined morning practice.
But what if your nervous system isn’t asking for more effort…
What if it’s asking for more awareness?
The opportunity for a quieter mind, allows for a stronger intuition.
Why Noticing Matters More Than You Think
The art of noticing is the gentle practice of paying attention to what’s already good, calming, or grounding in your day. It sounds simple - almost too simple, but it’s often the thing we overlook most.
Noticing requires you to pause before the autopilot kicks in.
To interrupt the “just do more” trap.
To give your body a moment to take a breath before your brain takes you somewhere else.
And physiologically, this matters.
The Nervous System Shift You Can Feel
When you catch a small moment of beauty - the warmth of your coffee mug, the pattern of morning light on the floor, the sound of rain, the rustle of trees outside your window - your nervous system responds instantly.
These micro-moments activate the parasympathetic nervous system, your body’s natural “rest and digest’’ state.
What follows is subtle but powerful:
Your breathing slows
Your muscles soften
Your heart rate steadies
Your brain produces calming neurotransmitters
Your body registers “I’m safe”
Over time, these small physiological pauses add up. Instead of reacting from stress, your body learns to anchor itself, even when life is full.
When You Notice More, You Stress Less
The more you train your attention to land on something steady, grounding, or pleasant, even for two seconds, the more your internal landscape shifts.
Things that once felt overwhelming begin to feel clearer.
You recover from stress more quickly.
You move through the day feeling more present in your own life.
Not because the world changed…
but because you did.
Try These Today
You don’t need a spare hour or a perfect routine. Start small, start soft, start where you are:
Notice one beautiful thing on your walk today — colour, texture, light, anything.
Watch the clouds move for a moment before diving into your next task.
Eat a meal without distractions, paying attention to colours, textures, and flavours.
End the day by naming three things you appreciated, no matter how tiny.
And my personal favourite, watch the stars at night.
Each moment of noticing is like an exhale for your nervous system - a reminder that calm isn’t out there somewhere; it’s available right now, in the smallest places. And sometimes, that’s all we need.
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